Have you ever felt like you’re just floating through life—doing what comes, responding to whatever shows up, but never really owning your days? I’ve been there. It’s a tough place to live from. You’re doing something—but is it the right thing?
The Bible talks about this very thing:
“A double-minded man is unstable in all his ways.” — James 1:8 (KJV)
Double-mindedness, I believe, doesn’t come from rebellion or laziness. It often comes from not knowing what you’re truly called to do. When you’re unsure of your purpose, life becomes a series of reactions instead of intentional actions. You say yes to things that don’t align with you, and your energy is scattered. There’s no real peace.
I used to be that person—unsure, unanchored, always starting and stopping, never really building anything meaningful. But that’s not who I am today.
What Changed?
Over the last few months, I’ve been inspired by people who live with intentionality. They wake up with purpose. They plan their days. They eat well, move their bodies, nurture their relationships, guard their mental space, and focus on personal growth. And do you know what that produces?
Fruit.
They’re not just “busy”—they’re fruitful. Healthy bodies. Strong relationships. Financial stability. Deep faith. Peace of mind. These are the rewards of focused living.
I’m not saying I have it all figured out, but I’m no longer drifting.
Drifting vs. Purposeful Living: What Napoleon Hill Taught Me
In Outwitting the Devil, Napoleon Hill introduces the concept of “drifting.” A drifter is someone who lacks a clear purpose and simply floats through life, letting circumstances decide their direction. Hill suggests that the devil uses drifting as a strategy to destroy human potential.
“The drifter takes the path of least resistance. He goes with the crowd. He is easily influenced. He procrastinates. He never makes definite decisions.” — Napoleon Hill
The Bible echoes this truth in Proverbs 29:18:
“Where there is no vision, the people perish.” (KJV)
And that’s what drifting does—it leads to perishing potential. Purpose, on the other hand, gives life structure and meaning. It roots you.
But What If Goal-Setting Doesn’t Work for You?
I know people who can sit down and set clear goals and just go. They build systems, track progress, and thrive. But if you’re like me, maybe that rigid style doesn’t work.
I respond better to a softer, more intuitive approach—one that’s spirit-led and rooted in deep connection with God. If you’re like me, here’s what has truly worked:
1. I Asked God for Guidance
It all started with a simple prayer: “God, what is my purpose?”
And He answered. He really does speak.
If you want to learn how to hear from God, I highly recommend Mark Virkler’s teachings on Communion with God. His books and messages helped me recognize God’s voice—gentle, loving, and full of truth.
Since I left campus, I’d never been formally employed. I felt aimless and broke. But when I tuned in to God’s voice, everything changed. He spoke to my heart about Uhai Path—a wellness brand that would glorify Him and lead others to healing. That vision gave me purpose. It gave me a reason to wake up with intention.
“Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways submit to him, and he will make your paths straight.” — Proverbs 3:5–6 (NIV)
2. I Created a Picture of My Future
I asked God to give me a vision—something I could look forward to. Then I added my own desires, dreams, and goals. I wrote it all down, and now I read it every morning and every night. I pray over it. I adjust it when the Holy Spirit leads.
Why does this work?
Because the subconscious mind responds powerfully to repetition and imagery. Neuroscience shows that visualization activates the same brain regions as actually doing the thing. Repeating this future picture reprograms the brain to accept it as possible—even inevitable.
As Dr. Caroline Leaf explains in her book Switch On Your Brain:
“As we think, we change the physical nature of our brain. As we consciously direct our thinking, we can wire out toxic patterns of thinking and replace them with healthy thoughts.”
This practice has been transformational for me. I now walk 10,000 steps daily, I eat healthy most of the time, and I’m consistently building Uhai Path and my work with Paidion.
3. I Allowed God to Heal My Heart
Before purpose could take root, healing had to happen.
I used to carry deep wounds—low self-esteem, fear of failure, and fear of criticism. But God has been gently healing those places. I’ve written about this in a previous post, and if you’re struggling with emotional wounds, please take time to read it:
“He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” — Psalm 147:3 (NIV)
Inner healing is key. Without it, even our goals become burdens or our achievements feel hollow. But when your heart is whole, your actions flow from love, not fear.
Final Thoughts: Focused, Not Double-Minded
I no longer live scattered. I’m focused. I know what courses I need to take for my growth—whether that’s in communication, wellness, or mindset. I know what aligns with the vision God gave me.
And most importantly, I know who I’m becoming.
So, do you really need to know what the future holds to follow your dreams?
No. But you do need to know who you are becoming—and who you’re becoming will guide what you do. Ask God. Let Him paint that picture with you.
Because when He leads, you won’t drift—you’ll thrive.
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Let’s walk this path together.
